EPISODE: 077

September 10, 2024

What is a Bio-Logical Woman?

With Dr. Melissa Sell

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“Nature does what makes sense for continuing life.” – Dr. Melissa Sell

In this illuminating episode of Reclamation Radio, Dr. Kelly Brogan engages in a profound conversation with Dr. Melissa Sell, an expert in German New Medicine. Together, they explore the biological and psycho-spiritual dimensions of our gendered experiences, focusing on how understanding these can lead to greater harmony and fulfillment.

Dr. Sell delves into the intricate dynamics of German New Medicine, explaining how biological conflicts influence our health, relationships, and societal roles. She highlights the importance of understanding male and female biology through this lens, emphasizing the natural harmony that exists when we align with our biological essence.

Key topics discussed:

  • Understanding German New Medicine and its implications for health and disease
  • The biological differences between men and women and their evolutionary significance
  • The impact of societal and familial programming on gender roles
  • Emotional maturity and the role of early life conflicts
  • The importance of aligning with our biological essence for personal and societal well-being
  • The influence of feminism, sexual liberation, and societal agendas on gender dynamics
  • Menstrual irregularities, infertility, and STD’s from a German New Medicine perspective
  • The significance of early pregnancies in emotional and biological maturation

Throughout the conversation, Dr. Brogan and Dr. Sell emphasize the importance of reclaiming our natural biological roles to foster deeper connections and greater fulfillment. They discuss how modern societal structures often disrupt these natural roles, leading to widespread dissatisfaction and health issues. The episode offers a blend of scientific insights and practical advice, providing listeners with a roadmap to navigate their own journeys of self-discovery and growth.

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Episode Transcript

(00:01) so I am calling all my girl bosses who are wanting to hang up the CEO hat when you get home with your man but the thing is you’re really good at getting done like you’re organized effective you’re an amazing Problem Solver and planner and there may even be moments where you feel like you’re better at being a man than your man I get it but the thing is that we are slaying at work and then we’re coming home and doing 70% of the invisible labor as wives and mothers and if you’re like me you’ve reached a wired and tired burnout and you just

(00:36) want someone to take care of you make your life easier and you just want to Exhale we have so much more power in our relationships than we’ve ever been told and it isn’t because we’re better at doing because we get what’s going on and we see the truth and it isn’t because we can handle so much but we’re confused about how to be a woman in the world today how to be a wife and a partner and how to get the protection and providership that we yearn for even though we can take care of our damn selves resolving this confusion has to

(01:09) do with offering your nervous system safety so you can respond differently and learn how to behave in ways that are aligned with your heart’s desires so you can evoke the man you’ve always longed for out of the partner that you choose so I’d love to share a free no obligation consultation with you so that you can slip out of that pant suit into something more comfortable so sign up and see how I can help you access your softness without adding anything to your to-do list the link is in show notes and at Kelly Brogan md.com

(01:48) [Music] consult I’m Dr Kelly Brogan you may know me as a New York Times bestselling author of a book with an exploding pill on the cover Renegade psychiatrist pull dancer or honorary member of the disinformation Dozen what can I say I’m a born provocator I’ve spent most of my recent life exposing deceptions connecting dots and discovering the secret places my inner victim is still waiting to be liberated and now I feel called to help you reclaim all of your parts your health your sexuality your power and your expression so that you can finally

(02:29) truly own your yourself I want to ignite in you that inner knowing and the pulsing Vitality that lives beneath your disempowerment disconnection and resentment so that you can audaciously courageously and playfully alchemize your struggle into the specific pleasure of who you are this is Reclamation radio hi and welcome back to Reclamation radio I am Dr Kelly Brogan and I am here with the one and only Dr Melissa cell who is my go-to resource and so many uh Turn to You Melissa for really meaning making I think around health and our

(03:11) experience of our bodies because of your expertise in what I still called German new medicine I know it’s had some uh revamps and rebrands uh but also because of the the way that you hold I would say as a woman the truth about this embodied experience so I think it’s more than just your your expertise um in this specific modality and I will um just by way of introduction to like how we connected um mention that I learned about German new medicine many years ago probably a decade ago from my uh the the my first husband’s mother uh so you know

(03:59) when she was going through a Health Challenge to say the least um she was called the German new medicine and she told me about it at the time and I was not ready to hear about it I was still very much in the functional medicine World which I know you agree is like a lot of greenwashed allopathy that says you know here’s the tests that show you what’s wrong with you here’s the 10 million supplements you need to take to fix yourself and I didn’t really want to take seriously you know that internal internal conflicts might be driving um

(04:33) anything of import right like they were anything more than just like a window dressing and it would be several years um actually after she passed that I heard this voice it’s literally one of the only times it was that clear I was meditating and out of nowhere I got this um this strong feeling to go check like the last email that she had sent me and it was about Germany medicine and I took that assigned to take a very deep dive around that time as I remember uh a patient of mine told me about you and that was sort

(05:09) of the the beginning of My Embrace of this modality which U has dovetailed so perfectly with everything that I’ve come to about the role of victim Consciousness in our human experience and you know to to learn that there’s a modality that explains you know cancer and metastasis and infection uh in a way that resolves all of the powerlessness um that we might otherwise feel has been such a balm and I am having you on today um not to talk necessarily about Germany medicine in general which we’ve already done in a you know previous

(05:50) conversation but specifically about what I know you are diving into which is how we can understand Womanhood and man Ood how we can understand female and male biology uh through this Germany medicine lens and I think there’s never been a more important time to have this conversation so uh before we dive in I just want to shut up and say thank you for being here and welcome you to the show well thank you for having me back and uh this conversation is so vital and everything in all every direction that you’ve taken in your work in your books

(06:27) and and getting into just the polarity the man woman relating uh it is so in alignment with us kind of coming into this biological understanding of nature of like oh this makes sense and that that is just the refrain I hear again and again and again as people really open themselves to understanding Dr Homer’s discoveries it’s just that makes sense this makes sense and and this is all the fifth biological law the quintant quintessence is that nature does what makes sense it does what makes sense for what for continuing life and

(07:02) so when we look at the uh the sexually dimorphic species everything about the male everything about the female makes perfect harmonious sense for what for continuing The Game of Life and when things get screwy when we have too many conflicts The Game of Life does not continue smoothly right and we have fertility challenges we have you know um men that are aren’t attracted to women women that aren’t attracted to men and we have this whole kind of spectrum of confusion and it’s simply because we have steered away straight away from

(07:40) Nature’s logic from Biol logic and when we really start to understand you know so Dr Hummer yes he discovered how biological conflict shocks initiate these adaptation Cascades that lead to the diagnosis and diseases we call cancer we call autoimmune disease that it is a response to an experience an experience occurs it impacts the psyche the brain and the organs everything in the organism adapts so that we can make it through this challenge so hopefully we have another chance to procreate so that we can reproduce the species so

(08:13) that the Game of Life keeps going everything about germana hyunda German new medicine Germanic healing knowledge it is about life it is pro-life it is pro- living it is pro- reproduction and and allowing organisms to be in their natural state where procreation can best take place and so for the you know when you are born you are born a male or a female and your brain is wired in a particular way you see the world differently when you’re a man you see the world differently when you are a woman and this is because nature needs

(08:49) it to be this way your your body is constructed differently the man he has bigger muscles and stronger thicker bones everything about him is bigger and the woman and she is smaller and her hands are smaller and she this is actually very funny because I have a cow and I was out of town um for a G&M Meetup in in Vancouver and so my man had to Milk The Cow and one of the difficulties that he had is his hand size and it’s like just the beautiful specialization of our anatomy that my hands and just think about a man with a

(09:25) baby like his hands are just like they’re just too big too tend to all of the little tiny needs of the baby and so he had some difficulties you know getting the milk especially out of her you know her rear teeths are shorter and so like my hands are just can get in there and do the job he had difficulty and so we just see this beautiful harmonious way that nature has organized things and said yes this is what the men will do this is what the women will do this is how we will keep the Game of Life goinging says mother nature and

(09:56) then we have these conflicts these things that come in that interrupt that halt the the safety of our environment the man in his territory and we can get into all the little details of you know how exactly our scales get tipped and how in order for us to live in a way that works in a way that makes sense in a way that brings more joy and pleasure because women today are not experiencing joy and pleasure they are experiencing resentment and bitterness and anger and frustration and WTF what is going on on why have I reached the peak of the

(10:32) modern woman but I am miserable and I’m anxious and I’m angry and I’m resentful of everyone around me and it’s because of the inversion of our harmonious biological order and the things that we have been brainwash indoctrinated to think this is below you this is you know this is Pigeon ho holding you this is a stereotype this isn’t how it’s supposed to be you’re equal rather than seeing the beautiful perfect specialization of the woman of the man and when they’re in their proper roles things work beautifully so I want to double click on

(11:06) this because obviously you know I I just wrote a book about this literally uh this exact subject you just summarized so eloquently and I know that you and I have very similar perspectives when it comes to the impact of certain agendas whether it’s feminism or sexual Liberation or even the new age on the neutralization of these biologically distinct roles that we are born to play as man and as woman um we haven’t discussed this but I’m I’m sure we share a perspective on what happens when the family unit and you know the marital Covenant are

(11:47) assaulted in this way uh and what you know you mentioned which is the the place that we found ourselves as women and you know I could even hearken back to some stats on one and four women you know of reproductive age being medicated with psychotropics to give us an indication of how well are we doing ladies right so we can play this role that we are encouraged to play through egalitarian oriented feminism of prioritizing male values we can allow ourselves to be colonized by the bondage to a male value system but will we ever

(12:24) actually feel fulfilled and I remember the first time that I was really um exposed to the spiritual dimensions of this right because it’s it is the biology it’s the psychology and it’s the spirituality of the difference between a man’s body and a woman’s body is actually through David data uh who talks about you know how a man’s body his vessel experiences Consciousness differently experiences emotions differently and that coming into polarity is how you actually generate erotic currency you know between the two polls that we are

(13:04) biologically spiritually emotionally psychologically fundamentally different and never the two shall meet you can try on the costume of the other uh but until we get organized on this level um it just won’t as you say make sense so I’d love to you know just dive into the perspective on what happens when from you know from this German new medicine perspective what happens when we begin to experience conflicts around our native biology um as as a woman you know born a girl and as a man uh born a boy definitely so the boy he’s born a

(13:47) boy he sees the world as a boy as a man he his concern is for the territory his concern is full because he needs a territory in order to have some to provide from and to protect from and so there’s just this hierarchy this order in nature the most important thing to a man is his territory and if You observe nature you see that territory is everything territory and hierarchy and so this in the brain Dr Homer found is is controlled from the the temporal loes in the cerebral cortex like this is the zone that is about communication

(14:26) hierarchy sexuality sexuality and territory right it’s where do I where do I land in this hierarchy and for the man him having a territory is the most important thing because without a territory without a property you are ignored by females you know there’s a I was reading this great old old book about like just animals and their territory and it says the female will ignore the unproper male because and it makes sense why would you’re invisible to me because you don’t have anywhere to provide and protect from you have no

(14:57) territory so for the man his territory is everything and if a man suffers a territorial loss conflict if he loses his territory his brain changes and so this is and it’s very interesting we are wired differently if you are right dominant versus left dominant and this is a natural biological protection mechanism because in order for conflicts they affect us in a certain way depending on our handedness and so the the left-handers have a bit of an advantage um because they’re kind of like okay if if every if everyone’s

(15:31) conflicted the left-handers will give us a chance to continue surviving um but we’ll give the right-handed example just for Simplicity so the right-handed male he perceives the world as a male he experiences the world as a male and if he loses his territory right if he has a territorial conflict that hits the right side of his brain either the bronchial muscle area the coronary arteries the uh pancreatic ducts or the uh territory marking the uers and the bladder so depending on the type of territory conflict as soon as he either has a

(16:03) threaten his territory he loses his territory he is angry because he feels like someone’s threatening his you know his hierarchy as far as eating goes he gets impacted on this side of his brain and when a man has a territorial conflict that’s occupying the right side of his brain his testosterone goes down and he becomes because if we just think about it Dr hommer gave the example of the wolf pack saying that you know the way that humans um kind of organize ourselves and have a a a social structure is is most similar to the

(16:33) Wolfpack in nature and so in order for the Wolfpack to survive it needs a leader we can’t just have every random wolf saying oh I’m gonna I’m gonna go over here and you know I’m gonna hunt a duck and I’m gonna go over here and and get some salmon and I’m that will not allow the pack to survive and so we need one leader the alpha who says listen up everyone this is what we’re doing this is how we’re we are allowing our pack to survive and so the alpha he’s the one with the most testosterone he’s the biggest right he’s the strongest he’s

(17:02) the best capable to provide and protect and so the other wolves the upand cominging Wolves they come and see if they can beat the alpha do I have what it takes and if you don’t if you get bitten down so this is like the quintessential territorial loss conflict like you lost the battle you lost the fight and so you become subservient you become gay fixated on the alpha you know your testosterone goes down because we can’t have you continuing to fight right because that would exhaust the alpha and nobody would survive again the logic of

(17:34) nature is survival and so the alpha he wins you become a second wolf a beta wolf and whoever bit you down whoever gave you your conflict you become fixated on that person right and you listen to what they say because that makes sense and so you know in and now we can have as humans we can have all sorts of territorial loss conflicts your first territory is your mother you know so a boy who loses his mother whose mother is abused whose mother leaves and goes to work who drops him off at daycare I’ve lost my territory so that

(18:06) very first territorial loss now can be with mother and so we can have someone who is you know the the edible complex or you know the I am now gay fixated on the mother because my testosterone is lowered I’m fixated on Mom and so it’s very important to just kind of start to understand the psyche of an individual and their unique life history and their story and how they got to be the way they are it makes sense right and there’s no there’s no value judgment of this is right and this is wrong and this is good and this is bad and this is you

(18:36) know wrong you know as far as morality comes into it and and you know homosexuality or however you play out your um you know your attraction pattern it’s not about that really we we look at nature and biology just based on again what makes sense and you know if every man is having a territorial loss conflict you know that is really disruptive because that means that he’s not going to reach his full biological whole maturity he’s not going to be able to you know fully Express himself as an you know I mean our society really makes

(19:06) it so no elf is really exist anymore you know we all we all at this point are operating on a spectrum and again don’t look at that as good or bad just look at it as oh this is interesting and this is going to allow me to better understand myself better understand how this works so first thing for a boy if he experiences a territorial loss conflict his testosterone goes down he develops you know a fixation and uh yeah he no longer is the alpha he’s no longer responsible for providing and for protecting okay and

(19:37) so it would then make sense that as women when we are raised to imagine that our primary focus should be on productivity and success and achievement and the security that is otherwise afforded through the acquisition of property uh we would be entering into the terrain of the conflicts associated with that because what is the focus typically of a girl uh who is born into these biological you know sort of hierarchies of concern what is what is a girl interested in yeah so for the female so now yeah we now we switch

(20:19) sides so that’s the male in his territory that’s his main thing the woman her territory is her sexuality because that is how she that’s her game that’s her part of the game right his part of the game is here’s the territory here’s the space and she says I’m going to bring the sexuality to the table so that is her domain that is her territory is her body her inner her inner territory and when she is totally protected right when she has when she knows who she belongs to that’s really the biggest thing is I know whose

(20:51) territory I’m a part of I’m provided for and I am protected and if she I mean this is when you just kind of think about the little princess who has never wanted you know she’s never been uncertain about her where she belongs and who she belongs to right she’s the princess of this Kingdom and this is all you know her daddy takes care of all of it for her right and she is ushered she is protected and provided for every step of the way until you know an eligible young man who has his own territory Right comes to the kingdom and then he

(21:21) is you know so she always there’s like the chain of command she always has someone right she’s always sh that sounds fantastic she’s always she’s always cared for she’s always sheltered she’s always protected she’s never she’s always had an umbrella she’s never been out in the rain on her own right and daddy holds the umbrella and then hands it to her husband and then she is taken safely safely off to his territory and this is how this is how it would be this is how nature would have it to be in order for a full you know a full mature woman

(21:55) because that’s the thing is we are when we have these conflicts the first conflict you know changes our hormonal status and then inevitably most people are having another conflict on the other side of their brain and when that other conflict occurs we have a constellation and we emotionally freeze at that age and so and you can tell a person’s emotional uh maturity based on how they respond when triggered right and so when you’re triggered if you shout and scream and throw pots and pans and you know you you freak out uh that means that you you

(22:25) know think about what type what age of child has that type of tantrum right and so the thing about emotional maturity is that you can continue to mature intellectually beyond the emotional maturity freeze um and so that’s why we see you know people who have intellectual interests interest in going to school and getting degrees and you know doing all sorts of things in the intellectual realm they have this you know their emotional maturity was frozen at some point and this is what is is developing for them and so the woman the

(22:54) girl you know her her body her sexuality her territory you know she needs to she needs to know that she is safe provided for cared for she knows who she belongs to and so for her her conflicts are uncertainty about the male in her life you know so if her mother is fighting with her father if her father leaves if there is obvious things like you know abuse sexual um impropriety you know things happening to her body where she’s violated that’s an obvious unsafe you know I’m unsafe in my sexuality right and so her left side of her brain

(23:24) and again all of this is orchestrated and controlled you know via the site to the brain and the Brain tells the story shows us okay this this girl had a you know territory her sexual sexual uh conflict sexual frustration conflict is about being made it and again knowing who I belong to knowing where I belong that belongs like the identity conflict and so then now we have these scales with the when we’re blocked on the left side of the brain we become more masculine because we have to right because we are we we’ discovered that oh

(23:57) my provider and my protector he is unstable he’s not around he’s not here and so my estrogen goes down my sex turns off right I have to become more masculine my testosterone increases I become the go-getter I become the the manic aggressive I’m going to create I’m going to have to you know build my Empire right because why because you found that the provider and protector was MIA or you know not good at his job or there was something unsafe about that and so this is where we are in in this this teeter totter where the men have

(24:31) lost their territory right I mean and this H this goes back to when we started doing um like School houses you know like I I got into this uh season of watching um Little House on the Prairie right and it’s like it’s actually then when you have these boys and a woman at the front of the school room telling everyone be nice don’t you know don’t fight don’t do this don’t do that you know it’s like the the boy in his territory being taken from him and so he says he’s got to play nice right he’s to lower his testosterone we can’t have you

(25:01) causing fights all the time and then we’ve got the girls with their intellectual Pursuits and that’s where it began right yeah it’s like that they say the feminized boys are the ones who fundamentally excel in school and these more masculinized boys um are then put in a position right to compete with girls athletically which might be a place where they otherwise can assert dominance and girls maturationally develop earlier so they’re not not always in a position to surpass their um abilities at these like grammar school

(25:34) ages so right exactly there’s a show too um that I actually watched with my daughter’s called an with an E that is like have you heard of it it’s like about the same same time and that’s exactly where I agree like that kind of castration effect starts where these boys are expected to like sit in a chair with mixed gender classrooms and listen to a woman tell them what to do you know so these um you know what I would call like mother and father wounds but these conflicts start to stack up very very early on and

(26:08) so you’re talking about how in girls when these conflicts arise there is an Arrested Development and I’ve heard you say I’d love for you to talk a little bit about um how that Expresses in terms of menstrual cycle and maybe even um fertility and conception because I’ve heard you talk about how this was very revolutionary for me in another interview I listened to uh that according to Germany medicine the proper age maybe proper is the wrong word um the optimal age for uh menarchy is 11 and you know I started my cycle at

(26:49) almost 15 and so you know when my daughters had a different experience than me I thought something was wrong with them and so actually through this lens I was like oh well that makes so much sense you know that actually I was in a an aberant uh expression because of these Associated conflicts so that was so Illuminating for me so I’d love for you to to speak a little bit about that so we have at least one framework to see how it should be you know like who even teaches us this yeah so Dr hommer found that the the the women who did not have

(27:27) conflicts in their sexual territorial areas no they had no conflicts in those areas started their um their first period at age 11 and so and the women who started before or after every time they had an impact in their brain in one of these territorial areas that changed their hormonal status so a girl again she sees the world as a female she is experiencing you know and all of the things that we say she’s more quiet more withdrawn more passive you know kind of keeping to herself she’s not you know she’s not running around and shouting

(27:59) and climbing trees and you know she’s she’s more protecting her inner territory she has a feminine perspective and when she has that first conflict and again we’re going to work with the right-hander when she has her first conflict um let’s say she has a sexual conflict I mean this could be uh seeing something of a a sexually explicit nature that her brain just wasn’t prepared to see you know seeing her parents have sex walking in on her dad nak it or with an erection or you know having someone flash her something uh

(28:26) that made her feel unsafe or a fight between the parents or the dad leaves or something that makes made her feel unsafe in her sexuality no longer feeling um just the safe comfortable protected way that she felt before when that impact hits her her temporal lobe in her sexual area right above the the left ear her estrogen goes down and so this is when you know you you notice oh she’s she’s changed her in her in her character in her personality in the way that she expresses she’s now a tomboy right the and we think oh this is just a

(28:59) stage or something she went through but now knowing this framework knowing this map you can pay attention what happened right was it a doctor’s exam was it you know did she get in trouble for something you know like for playing doctor and you know like these things and how did this impact her psyche and so when that personality shift happens it’s not just random it’s not just this something occurred that caused her to no longer feel safe in her sexuality for some reason her estrogen went down her testosterone went up and so she is now

(29:27) no longer going to start her period at age 11 unless she happens to have a conflict on the other side of her brain so a girl who has a conflict on the left side of her brain she now is seeing the life more through the lens of a male right she’s kind of concerned about her territory and typically what happens is she marks her territory she says I like that that boy yeah but she’s gonna be more attracted to what the softy the the guy with the long hair and the earrings and the emo kind of you know not not the

(29:56) big masculine football player she’s not into him him anymore because her attraction pattern has shifted right because now she her estrogen is down her testosterone is up so she you’re always looking for your perfect match we’re always looking to harmonize we are always looking for like the percentage of masculine you are that’s going to be the percentage feminine you find in your man right and so it is a perfect harmony so she’s going to be attracted you know she marks her territory she says oh I like that guy and then typically the the

(30:24) conflict that brings the period is the first unhappy love so the the girls the masculine girl is you know seeing the the person that she likes hold hands with someone else or kiss someone else and she has lost her territory now right and so then she gets her second conflict on the right side of her brain and at that moment um her scales shift and then within you know a couple of days to a couple of weeks after that conflict she’ll have her first period because now her estrogen is back again because she had an impact on the right side of her

(30:53) brain but at that point we she’s now she’s now has the scales right and so what do we say about you know girls around that age of starting their period oh they’re just they’re emotionally imbalan and they’re just you you just don’t know what you’re going to get it’s because they have entered a schizophrenic constellation that Dr hommer this is all this explains every me quote mental illness is not it is a biological adaptation to experience and so the girl and I remember my my high school experience with girls around that

(31:24) age I mean and many of my girlfriends were on psychotropic drugs and they were they swing from manic to depressive manic to depressive and now we have a map to understand exactly when and why that happens because when you step on the track of the right side you step on the rejection track right the loss like oh I got rejected he didn’t want me or you know you could get rejected by your parents even a most people their tracks are around mom and dad like you mentioned and so you get around mom and you get super depressed you get around

(31:52) dad because your you know your sexual conflict was with him again little girls what do they say I’m going to marry my dad like you know they they have this kind of you know this love for this man and so it is he hit any instability in him gives you a sexual conflict right and so he becomes your track for becoming manic so you get around your dad you get super Manic you get around your mom you’re depressed and it all depends all of the time and women you just need to start paying attention to this you have to map this out for

(32:19) yourself what do you think your first sexual conflict was what do you think your first territorial loss conflict was when you got your period right and you most likely are because most girls it’s it’s prettyy reliable that your emotional um maturity age is the age you got your period because we know you had your first conflict and then we know you got your second around that time you know and so that is and these conflicts a lot of people will then be like oh what can I do how can I reverse this a lot of these ones these early ones you

(32:47) can’t they’re they’re there right they’re kind of like in your neurology wired in there and you will not get to a point where you get rid of them and resolve them which is not is is totally fine it’s you’re going to going to learn to navigate within it you’re going to learn oh that’s a manic track when I when I step on this one I I get super Manic and high strung and aggressive and I’m out going and I’m yelling and I’m shouting and it’s like oh I’m on my manic trap right I I was something triggered my my mania and now um oh I

(33:16) can I can come into balance with it or oh I’m really withdrawn really depressed really just like can’t get out of bed I have triggered my my depression track and when you start to learn the different conflicts associated with each side you can start to dance in it right and play with it and say okay this is this is something I can work with and I can learn to harmonize right you can do that with your man because again the person you attracted into your life at that point we know this about birth control right is that when a woman’s on

(33:43) birth control she attracts and is attracted to a different kind of man she gets off of it and she’s like whoa what’s the deal it’s for the same reason right it’s because it changed her hormones changeed her attraction pattern and when she comes into when she’s ovulating regularly again you the ovulating woman wants a different kind of man she wants the best man she wants you know she wants the one who’s what most capable of providing and protecting and this is where the we get into such trouble in our relationships and in our

(34:12) Dynamics because the woman does have this you know this biological need for the best and so she it’s very easy for her to go into resentment for literally anything that her man is doing because you know she she kind of has this biological incentive to test to be like are you the best are you the best are you the best and if you don’t if you’re not aware of that capacity within yourself and you’re not understanding kind of the Dynamics of your your relationship you can destroy him and and this is what you know most women very

(34:43) unconsciously do um is is destroy their Man simply because they don’t understand their biology they don’t understand the state they were they were in when they attracted this man and how things have progressed and by understanding it you can what soften we soften you know and become and becoming more of that uh the woman that you desire to be will allow the man because again it’s a constant tipping of the scales a constant back and forth and so this is the thing is when you and your partner are getting along it’s likely because you’re in a

(35:14) good Harmony in your hormonal States and then but when you tip the scales to a little more masculine and manic right it’s it’s difficult you you find judgment you’re having territorial conflicts all over the place with everything that he does and what does he do just withdraws even further and so the understanding how this harmonizes that a woman when she’s criticized she becomes masculine and Manic and she’s like okay I’m gonna you’re questioning my identity okay I gotta get this thing done and she assumes that that’s how the

(35:42) man’s brain is wired but it’s not his brain is wired that when you criticize him when you tell him what to do when you tell him how to be that’s a territorial threat and what does that do to the right side of his brain his territory conflict gets stepped on and he becomes more passive and depressive and withdrawn and less likely to do the thing and we can see we I think many women who have listen to your podcast and you know read the books you recommend and read your book you get that that’s how it works but now we’re

(36:12) seeing exactly hormonally on this scale why and how it has everything to do with the amount of estrogen and testosterone in the room and who’s driving it and if the woman can just see I’m destroying him I’m threatening his territory that is never going to get me the that I want ever in a million years that’s why I just I’m like having such inner delight listening to you speak because I’m like this is the exact you know Omar Pon David data Laura I mean all of these resources that I’ve curated uh to support my own you know

(36:46) reveals and and this um process that I’ve been in my own spiritual journey it’s exactly what you’re saying and the fact that German medicine brings to Bear a biological uh framework for this is I think unique because everybody else is talking relationally spiritually psychologically about exactly the same dynamics that you’re saying are upheld um on the physiologic level so I like to sweat I live in Miami and I don’t always eat locally and fun fact I don’t love supplements like capsule supplements so because I also

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(38:45) terrain around uh agendas to um disconnect us from our native biology however I do want to talk a little bit about like how what are the implications for imagining that you were born to the wrong body Etc but before we go there I want to um to see if you can share a little bit about what what gnm has to say and I know it’s very you know personal to every individual’s experience of conflict but about you know menstrual irregularities about um infertility and about STDs like about the ways that you know these man woman issues you know can be

(39:26) relativized by the perspective because I’m sure people are are thinking about that you know as they’re as they’re listening totally so yeah so with the menstrual cycle so again once you have your first period and these scales are set up and so if you struggle when well a woman who has menstrual uh pains she definitely has a sexual frustration conflict right and so that’s the um the left side of the brain that impact in order to have menstrual like the woman who has no conflict in her territorial areas has no menstrual

(39:56) pain none at all but you have and if you do have menstrual pain or menstrual irregularities we know you’re running the sexual frustration program and the sexual frustration program is not about sexual gratification it’s about not being M it right not knowing who I belong to not knowing who the father of my children is going to be and if you are with a partner and you’re like I don’t know if I could see you as the father of my children that’s a sexual frustration conflict if you are not partnered if you are single that’s a

(40:23) sexual frustration conflict because you do not know whose territory you belong to to you do not have someone you know you don’t have that shelter you don’t have that provision and that protection that is needed for your sexuality to be safe so most modern women it is pretty safe to say you’re running a sexual frustration program and this causes adaptations in the cervix so if you’ve ever had an unusual Pap test it is because you are running this program and nature um says okay if you are sexually frustrated we need to widen your cervix

(40:53) we need to make adaptations to this tissue so we can ensure procreation right and so the biology widens the cervix and preparation for you know a a strong man to come along provide and protect for you and allow you to conceive because that’s what nature I mean nature the biggest disaster the worst thing for a female in nature is not procreating it’s not being impregnated and so when you start to just recognize that literally all of your problems from a biological standpoint are about how your mind is trying to be like all right well how am

(41:24) I going to get the baby how am I going to keep life going right and like you think you’ve got other agendas you think you have other goals in life but your biology is saying listen if you don’t do this it’s all over for all of us right it’s like it hinges upon you getting getting the man and and being provided for and protected for in order to keep the species going and so it’s just it’s so simple when you look at it that way when you understand this is like these are the biological needs and when you recognize the biological needs you’ve

(41:56) got tons of Psych ological needs you’ve got tons of other needs but when and that’s because we’ve got the hierarchy out of order right we don’t we’re not taking care of our biological needs our most innate basic I mean this even goes for just basic health and lifestyle things it’s like did you go for a walk today have you gone into the sunshine are you you know do you drink when you’re thirsty and pee when you need to go like do you listen to your body you know I know that it just sounds so remedial but it’s like we need some

(42:22) remedial work we need some Back to Basics right are you covering your biological needs and your biological basis um and so yeah when we are looking at the uh the woman and her needs it’s it is that’s what it’s about it’s about we’re adapting in order to try to um acquire um not acquire be acquired we want to be acquired by by the man who can provide and to and and protect um yes and so that causes a cervical adaptation and so HPV here we go we are understanding a a a diagnosis label that we slap on to people and say oh you need

(42:59) this prophylactic injection to avoid this thing well how is an injection going to stop you from know not knowing who the father of your children is going to be right and so also it all these scales really are determining what your menstrual cycle is like if it’s short if it’s long if it’s long if it runs longer than 28 days you’re running that sexual frustration track right and so you’re more manic in the month than you are in the uh in the balance state or on the other side if it’s short we’re running a a right-sided program it’s more

(43:30) emphasized on the estrogen scale right and so that would cause a short cycle and so if yours goes short long short long we know that you are stepping on certain conflicts if you’re having difficulties conceiving right you have to pay attention and if you’re having your cycle and you’re and you’re having difficulties conceiving we have to look at several conflicts one can be a double loss conflict so if you that affects the ovaries itself so this is coming from not from the cerebral cortex but from the ovarian level and so this is a loss

(43:58) conflict so if you’ve you know had miscarriages if you’ve had losses in your family lost pets lost you know loved ones that causes um degradation of the ovaries and that also obviously will prevent ovulation that will prevent um your normal hormone cycle so we have to see are you running that program another program that causes um fertility issues is um a prolactin conflict um and this runs from the brain and it has to do with not uh being able to feed The Offspring right so if you’re again uncertain about your financial status am

(44:29) I going to like I want to have a child but will I be able to feed that child that can trigger the brain to increase your prolactin and so your body kind of thinks you’re pregnant because and so you can’t if your body thinks you’re pregnant you can’t conceive and so that’s another one and then the big one though are these scales it’s really understanding how often am I stepping on my masculine track right women who who work you know women who run a business women who are you know in the doing the thing they went to school for right

(44:57) they’re trying they are manic when they’re in that state and so when you are working to O how do I harmonize this you have to look at everything through this lens of is this a manic masculine activity and how am I going about it right because I do think that there are ways to alchemize and to be more creative and how you go about doing your work right and or being really good and very clear at Hanging the work up when when the when you’re away from the laptop when you’re away from you know your your business that you come in and

(45:25) you you saw often you receive you go into that you know that that quiet that that space and just knowing just understanding what the traits are of masculine feminine and working to develop those traits right working on receiving working on you know because I it’s actually really funny I sent a something to my friend today I saw a uh an ad it was an ad for like a fertility tracker and uh what does the fertility tracker ad say because right so a woman who is having wonky Cycles right and she’s concerned about her fertility

(46:00) she’s she’s going to want to what start monitoring it right and so this monitor this fertility monitor says feel in and and it highlights control of your cycle feel in control of your cycle like they know who they’re talking about feel in control of your cycle because you are a manic masculine woman who is having cycle irregularities because you are needing to feel in control of things right you and that’s that this is a super interesting thing too just about hormonal status and power right like a true Alpha like a man he’s never going

(46:34) he doesn’t need control he doesn’t he’s not he doesn’t need he just has it he doesn’t need it and so he’s never going to like exert like this undue control and power it’s only men beta males or so men who have lost their testosterone who make it into a position of power they’re tyrants right because they know they don’t biologically kind of deserve the role of being this leader and so they you know they become absolutely unbearable as do the women in in in positions of power because she is she needs to be controlling simply because

(47:06) she physically doesn’t have the control she doesn’t have she’s not commanding the audience right she’s not the one like you know when there’s an alpha when when like the actual boss is here you know it you feel it when someone who’s like been given the crown of boss but you know they’re not the boss everyone knows it we can you can smell it it’s hormonal right and and that’s where understanding how these hierarchy Dynamics work there’s always a hierarchy always a hierarchy in nature there’s a metaphor I don’t know where I heard this

(47:36) first but it’s like if you have a a man in a bar right and he’s learning martial arts and he’s really enthusiastic about like what kind of status might be conferred now that he’s becoming a good fighter right so he’s in the bar and he’s gonna like potentially even provoke somebody so that he can like show his new moves right whereas a like a a seasoned Master you know would sit in that bar and if somebody so much as like glanced at him the wrong way he doesn’t he barely has to move a muscle to assert his dominance right so there’s

(48:12) like this internalization of that kind of command and so-called control that isn’t uh isn’t necessarily will-based it’s energetic I just yeah I love what you’re describing because I think it’s felt right so that’s why so much of this is a it’s a remembrance of what as you always say makes makes sense so I want to touch just briefly because I know this could be its own weekend workshop on the on the STD concept because I I will never um miss an opportunity to Dethrone the contagion model it’s so no you know pun intended I guess it’s so

(48:52) penetrant um this concept that you know you could be um exposed go to an infection through infidelity that that ends up being how a lot of women or men um try to control the conversation around um entitlements in uh relational Dynamics so so yeah what is the what is the one or two liner on STDs and then I want yeah I want to um talk about sort of bigger picture social things yeah it’s about experiences not germs it’s about the experience what happened again why is it so common that a person runs out on the relationship and brings

(49:30) herpes back to the bed they knew they had an experience basically almost every uh genital uh adaptation STD is is about separation it’s about wanting contact or not wanting contact or more often having a split energy I want this contact but I also shouldn’t be having this contact I want it but I also regret it it was good but you know so this it’s split energy right and that’s what causes the ectodermal tissue to adapt erosion numbing of the area helping you to forget oh I want to forget that I did that and then when you resolve it that’s

(50:05) when the sores come that’s you know what we call herpes it has everything to do with separation conflicts wanting contact not wanting contact regretting the contact is really uh one of the biggest ones that I’ve seen almost consistently every time I talk to someone it’s like okay what happened when did you start regretting this contact when did you have it when were when was the energy split and figuring that out you know and and ultimately it is it’s like this uncertainty about uh who I’m with you know is this is this my

(50:36) man is this the one you know the and how that plays into like a sexual conflict as well as like you know with your hormones are you uncertain about this person why why are you having this contact with this person does this make sense is this the person who is providing and protecting your territory right that would be a reason that you could have split energy about having this contact is this was this a momentary pleasure thing and now you’re like oh no I’ve jeopardized my long-term relationship wow that’s a huge

(51:02) separation conflict and so the adaptations that occur at the site have everything to do with um how you felt the experience and then yes if you bring that come back to your you know your bed with your uh partner after having gone away from the relationship that is felt and so the whole of spreading there is no little particle that jumps from one being to another it is an endogenous process everything they label with the V word HPV herpes simplex virus it is it’s just protein particles at a site of adaptation protein particles at a site

(51:37) of adaptation where the body went through a tissue change in response to a conflicting experience that’s it anytime you hear a virus that’s all you need to think about what adaptation took place there what what caused this tissue to adapt an experience so we look at the experience we understand why this was conflicting and you find a resolution for it right if you’re going to continue though to be you know something about an open relationship that’s very uncertain right that’s very much like having a lot of questions I don’t know who I’m who do

(52:07) I belong to right well I belong to you today I belong to you tomorrow that you’re going to be stepping on that sexual frustration scale all the time and just beginning to recognize how that affects your your your cycle how that affects you know these tissue changes it’s I don’t know who I belong to I don’t know and so it’s not about bugs it’s not about germs it’s not about you know sanitizing your genitals so that you don’t you know catch something you can’t sanitize away an experience right you need to be aware of how I felt in that

(52:36) Dynamic and is this working for me or is this not and then making a practical change a conflict is resolved when it can’t happen again right and so if you’re continually putting yourself in a situation like that those tracks are going to persist and and the biolog is just going to do what is designed to do which is to assist and support you in finding a resolution so so on a societal level if we have been brought to this greater context that is fundamentally disconnecting women from their role as reproducers uh and

(53:13) fundamentally disconnecting men from their role as producers right where we now imagine that it’s just they’re interchangeable it’s just the same as an outfit you put on and whatever it is that you might imagine um suits your current preference like how how does German new medicine and then how does Melissa see a lot of these agendas to um to depolarize the manom uh complimentarity and to create the conditions for us to imagine it’s a matter of choice and personal expression to declare ourselves you know one or the

(53:54) other or neither oh it’s just complete destruction it’s a complete destruction of the family you already mentioned that it’s just like we destroy the family the family unit we you know a Netflix that popped up this documentary about the Ashley Madison Scandal and so this was this whole thing that was promoting people to have affairs right and like that was what it was like that is that is just like the people who designed that website yes obviously they saw a market and they just kind of went for it but at what cost right like things like

(54:23) that like that is undermining of the family a cult and that’s the thing is there are um big implications um societally politically for how society would be designed understanding this right like a society that understood this would not stand for that like that website would not be allowed in our country right because that undermines that breaks because like when that happens when a parent goes out of the marriage right that is profoundly unsafe for everyone that’s territorial conflicts for the boys and sexual

(54:52) conflicts for the girls congratulations your children now are going to you know be flicted right it destroys them it destroys their safety it destroys that okayness and everything you know the the feminist movement let’s get the women out of the home right let’s let’s take them away let’s let’s give them this promise of this big beautiful life uh beyond the the cooking and the cleaning and the tending for your Offspring let’s show them something different they knew they knew they absolutely knew what this was going to do and we are seeing the

(55:21) generations that come as a result of you know people being disconnected from their biology dis disconnected from their children I mean just look the children of today and you you see the memes right you see the people the I’m on the Spectrum ADD ADHD like I’ve got all of these well of course you do you you know you didn’t have that stable home life and you had conflict conflict conflict conflict right and now you’re just dancing with your constellations and everything is about having that safety and that stability of the home

(55:52) and when you destroy you know you destroy the man you destroy his property you know he has no territory right he has no Homeland he has nothing that he’s fighting for and so you know he’s just kind of going where where the wind blows and then the woman she’s looking for something right she’s seeking something and she’s got all these men and just like no it’s not you it’s not you but I’ll settle you know I I I’ve got this biological drive and so you know and I think that you’ve touched on this before like okay when you destroy people you

(56:19) know when you break them they always are going to need daddy government they’re always going to need mommy medicine and daddy government and so that is it’s like we break the family unit and we come in as the adoptive surrogate you know horrible parents you know the evil stepparents that come and it’s like okay well we’re we’re surviving but we’re not thriving you know we are we are devolving we are not growing we are not building a a beautiful I mean you should look out and there should just be Beauty everywhere there should be Harmony

(56:49) everywhere when you’re living in harmony with nature you do what makes sense you do what is biolological bio life what is what is logical to continue life how are we going to keep this game going and you know we know how to destroy it we know how to destabilize it and we know how to get you hooked on a system right you’re always going to need that system when you’re broken in this way right I mean women need to even reproduce right because their sex is so unsafe and they feel they’re always constantly in and

(57:19) out of these tracks that she’s just like but I really need to get pregnant huge billion dollar industry multi-billion dollar industry it’s like okay yes we can use we can turn that into a commodity we can turn this we can turn that and it’s all because we’re we’re divorced from nature we are not living in alignment we are we are not recognizing I mean as soon as people recognize these biological laws Life Starts to be like okay you’re priorities right we have to that those biological needs we’re not it’s so inverted going

(57:47) after the intellectual needs and let me go to college and let me do this and let me do all of these things it’s like we have it completely out of order and and nature is simple and nature does what makes sense and we are complicated and we do what does not make sense that is why we are sick that is why you know people feel so broken and like to the point where someone truly doesn’t feel at home in their body like oh I this is you know um I actually saw um something from uh what is it Elon musk’s son who has transitioned and like there’s kind

(58:17) of a whole big kurur fuffle online about you know things that he’s saying about the the child and the child’s like he wasn’t there I read in the article it’s like he he was never around and it’s like oh that that young man lost his territory he had a territorial loss conflict he was probably concerned for his mother right really concerned for maybe even fixated on his mother because his mother’s like here’s my you know high-profile you know husband he’s just gone I don’t know where he is I don’t know what he’s doing so she was

(58:42) conflicted right and this boy his first territory is his mother and his mother is uh you know distressed concerned you know not feeling provided for and protected you know maybe provided for financially but not protect like he’s off somewhere else and so that child gets fixated on his on his mother his testosterone goes W way way way way down to the point because again it’s all it’s all a spectrum the intensity of the conflict determines the how much you lose of your hormonal status and then you add a genda driven things on top of

(59:14) it right and the you know the oh I could be accepted here and I don’t feel good here but I could you know kind of be be something in this world if I transition if I change my the way that I present and we can see this makes a lot of sense right this makes sense that this that this happened you know and and what we have to go back to when did it begin who we’re when when did that young man lose his territory so severely that his testosterone and his perception of himself as a man completely shut off you know and so that’s where all of this can

(59:45) be understood through the lens of biology yeah and I love that you bring also because of your commitment to uh resolving the victimhood that can result from this perspective right like how dare they do this to us kind of energy like I know you can also understand that even in solving psychospiritual and psychic conflicts through changing bi changing the biological expression right surgeries and pharmaceuticals even in choosing to do it in what we would characterize as an inverted way that person finds belonging

(1:00:26) in a system right when you become indentured to the medical system for life right you become a lifelong customer who requires hormonal modulation or follow-ups for your um biological manipulations there’s belonging conferred there right and on some level it’s like well that makes sense too right like this whole thing even though you and I find ourselves on one side of the conversation um this whole thing maybe is a part of the meta you know Evolution that we are moving through um you know I talk about in in my book how

(1:01:07) looking at it through David data’s lens uh you know we’re in this second stage right this this neutralized territory where we aren’t aligned with our Essence and only in the third stage do we choose electively volitionally uh to surrender that which we’ve achieved through through this neutralization and egalitarian perspective and this kind of all one um Vibe of just being a Human Instead of being a woman or being a man we can choose to align with our Essence and through that you know find and access this portal you know to God and

(1:01:42) so perhaps it’s all in our development you know that all this is is going down the way it is um and you know there’s one last thing I wanted to to bring up because again I heard you talk about this and it was so relativizing as I explore these Concepts myself in my own life I look at who I’ve judged right I look at you know women I’ve known to have like honestly more than like two or three babies and I look at women who have had babies super young and I felt judgment I felt superiority as somebody who put her

(1:02:18) career first um as a feminist entitlement and now of course I’m exploring and revisiting you know the perspectives that say well that makes a lot of sense and in fact I have um a girlfriend Alyssa I’m going to have on the show to talk about a lot of the similar uh conclusions she’s come to as a credentialed scientist uh which are summarized by the fact that she was telling me about a conversation she was having with a friend and the friend was like you know I’m I’m thinking about putting my uh you know freezing my eggs right so that she

(1:02:52) could finish you know something in her Education and Training and Alyssa’s like I felt like telling her that she should put her career on ice and not her eggs on ice right like this um inversion has led us to misunderstand the optimal windows for our own fulfillment and our own personal expression and so I heard you say that there’s something that can happen when you uh have a baby before you’re 25 that uh is you know a biological repair and I’ve never heard of such a thing it’s fascinating to me and also seems to

(1:03:35) reframe what that opportunity is because if you’re going the the girl boss route I mean let alone if you’re going the credentialed you know rude clinician or lawyer or whatever your first 26 years of life are owned you know by your career and I am living um proof of that and also took birth control for 12 years straight uh so what is it to prioritize uh procreation during those years that is um quite a defiant right at this point uh expression and so I I just want to to to put a spotlight on what German medicine

(1:04:14) says happens biologically when you do that ah absolutely I’m so glad you brought this up so remember we talked about the emotional maturity stop right so you have these two conflicts you have a sexual conflict you have a territorial loss conflict that also we won’t go down into that path today but brings about the the nymphomanic constellation the post-mortal constellation so your personality changes and you emotionally freeze at that age right again we said your intellectual maturity can continue but your emotional maturity freezes

(1:04:41) unless you have a pregnancy and so for every pregnancy before the age of 25 because 25 is like the age of biological maturation so it’s like everything grows and is continuing to grow and like you know your cloth size are going to change every everything’s going to change until 25 25 is like the set point uh biologically and so uh you can catch up on maturity so let’s say that you started your period at age 13 that means that’s when your constellation came online you’re going to have the emotional maturity of 13 years old

(1:05:11) unless you have a pregnancy before age 25 for each pregnancy Dr hommer said you catch up on three years of emotional maturity for every pregnancy and so one pregnancy at 20 you know you’ve made it to 16 years old of maturity we have another one at 22 uh We’ve made it to you know so we can catch up on that emotional maturity and it makes sense just think you know in nature the the women just just observe women who have a lot of you know have a lot of children at a young age versus you know a woman who has children after 25 there is there

(1:05:43) is something um that is palpably different about their energies about the way that they conduct themselves and and it’s just about how Nature has equipped them because a woman without children her priorities are different as soon as a child comes on the scene the priorities change tremendously and so that is how Nature has designed it and so uh children having children young having children you know um before age 25 helps you to catch up that on that emotional maturity and again it’s just how Nature has it designed has it

(1:06:14) operate that the who you know I saw something recently about like okay they pulled men and men what what what age woman is the most attractive to you and it’s like 18 you know it’s like that that makes biological sense because that for her it’s like fertility we are on like the show is that’s what the show is about and when you really get look into like you know the essence of attractiveness and sexuality what is it about guys is it about physical carnal pleasure it’s about procreation it is about bringing new life because life

(1:06:46) wants to bring new life into the world and we are I think below replacement rate you know that funny to bring Elon Musk up again but that’s something he does talk about is that how you know like people are not having children that we are below this replacement rate because why because we’re prioritizing different things and so if you think about this as like your you know your bloodline and we’ve also I think gotten disconnected from you know the the beauty of certain Bloodlines and the beauty of like keeping you know certain

(1:07:15) uh you keeping the race going let’s keep this thing going right and when we get disconnected from that and when we’re like yeah whatever I’ll do it I’ll freeze my eggs I’ll I’ll wait I’ll put it on the back burner and again I fell victim to the same exact thing it’s like okay I’m going to graduate school at 25 and then I’m going to start my practice and I’m going to do this and like you know it like everything got pushed back because I and and it makes sense because I needed to provide and protect because that was one of my core wounds early in

(1:07:42) life is like oo feeling afraid for the territory feeling like you know I have to do it you know I’ve got to make money because that was one of my big fears as a child that you know led to so many of my early life conflicts it’s like so that made perfect sense that I had to do that but now retrospect it’s like oh you know in my nature and I I just know like early on I was very much like a you know I remember I had a list of like naming my uh eight sets of twins I wanted to have and I gave them all names you know

(1:08:10) and it’s like that’s the drive of a of a young feminine girl is like what does she want she wants babies she wants she wants babies babies babies the more the better you know and so that really that’s the next wave girls we are moving in to the you know the Young like finding that person too because you know the that first love that first time and that’s why it’s it’s important who your kids are around and who they kind of fixate on as their first love because nothing’s ever going to beat that nothing’s gonna ever beat the hormonal

(1:08:40) cocktail of that right of like what that’s like for both of them um and so we want if we built Society again around this this beautiful way and and you know kind of the the idea um or the reality for some regions of like arrange marriage it’s like the the women in arranged marriages they never have a sexual frust they’ll never have a mating conflict right they’ll never not know who the father of their children is going to be you know it’s like this has our our culture has set it up that like someone else decides and that you know

(1:09:11) in many ways can be more stabilizing right it’s not romantic and it’s not you know all the things that that uh you know that we have made love to be but like partnership marriage is very practical like in in the olden days it was just about practicality it was just about hey I’ve got a farm and uh you have a extra daughter over there who you can’t feed anymore it’s like she can come over here oh she’s got some sisters bring them too right and that it just made sense again logic and it wasn’t about you know the the fanciful romance

(1:09:44) and so much of the fanciful like a practical alpha male it’s like you know he’s looking for like a woman a feminine woman to who who can bear children it’s like that is very practical and you know and I do think we can marry you know our ideas that we have uh you know developed with like returning to a biological way it’s not like it has to be all or none right we are creative uh beings and we can figure out okay given that we’ve gone so far in this Direction Let’s like swing it back around and that it’s it’s going that way we know that

(1:10:16) the the pendulum has to swing and these you know we have to go so far away so foreign so bizarre with what we’re doing with our sexuality and reproduction I mean that that pop star girl who wants to take one of her eggs and fertilize it three times and get three surrogates it’s like okay we’re done with that that is that’s no longer going to be the direction and the the role models that we have in the public eye we’re gonna you know that’s over and now we are you know showing how how we keep the species going how we keep life promoting

(1:10:48) activities as like the Forefront the core of society you know things that don’t corrupt the minds and the bi ology of children right we protect them we don’t subject them to you know sex education and things when they’re 5 years old we don’t do that because that destroys the psyche and they know that and they know that the earlier they do it the more locked that person is into what into the system the mommy medicine daddy government that that will forever be reigning over their lives and so this is about Freedom you know you are not

(1:11:19) free if you are if you are stuck in these constellations and if you’re so dependent on a system right you can’t be free so that’s really why German new medicine it’s the medicine of Freedom it is the it is the it is the understanding of the like that’s what the Germanic like when you hear the word Germanic it’s not about like the country Germany it’s about the Germanic people who lived in harmony with nature who recognized the the biological way to live right and they live that way and they they you know there’s a wonderful book um called

(1:11:49) Germania th cadus where he went and observed these Germanic peoples and he’s a Roman and they just rejected everything about the Roman way of life and we are we’re living in Rome we’re living in the you know the same uh you know going after money they they rejected money they didn’t use money they’re like we don’t what we don’t need your gold like they their whole life was arranged in a certain way around nature around biology around just what makes sense in order for their people to continue living and and that’s what the

(1:12:20) core of this is about that is what this is returning to is the nature of wisdom the nature of of uh of life and and getting back to that as quickly as possible ideally Dr Cell It’s so so so enjoyable uh to to talk about this and just to find uh I remember when we were last at an event together and you brought this up and I was like wow she’s arrived at the same conclusions that I have just to find ourselves in all of these nuanced um territories no pun intended together um is is just so delightful you are so sweetly provocative in just the best

(1:13:01) ways and uh such a refreshing addition to the zeist that I know is um swelling right now in the conversations around a woman’s role a man’s role and where we go from here so I’m so grateful and I’d love for you to share you know what you have going on and where people can learn more from you and of course we’ll have all of the links and show notes yes very good um I H A friend of mine and I are creating a course it’s called biod Dash logical woman and so biod Dash logical woman uh we’ll have in September and it

(1:13:39) be it’ll cover all of the Women’s Health fertility um conflicts biology understanding the uh G&M ghk perspective on all of it what we talked about today so that will be um a fun thing if you’re like into this topic and you want to dive deeper that’s coming in September um but yeah my if you’re brand new if you’re like have never listened to anything about um this work before my YouTube channel is a great place to start or um Instagram and yeah you’re welcome to reach out if you have questions amazing thank you woman

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