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What if everything we’ve been told about birth, the body, and belonging to the system was backwards?
In this episode, I sit down with Veda Ray, a wife, a mother, and a guide for families reclaiming sovereignty through conception, pregnancy, and birth. Her work brings a calm, grounded clarity to topics that most of us were taught to fear, from ancestral trauma to the spiritual role of the placenta. She lives what she teaches, and her story begins long before the birth room.
We trace how disconnection begins generations before conception, how modern birth rituals mirror that separation, and what it looks like to restore the bond to your body, your baby, and even your lineage. We go where few conversations dare to go: birth certificates, circumcision, and the quiet decision to raise children outside the system. You’ll see why remembering what’s natural isn’t rebellion, it’s homecoming.
You’ll Learn:
[00:00] Introduction
[08:52] The turning point that forced Veda to stop outsourcing her health and trust her body again
[16:03] How ancestral trauma can pass through generations, and what it takes to break the pattern before birth
[19:47] The surprising imprint a mother’s first thoughts can leave on her baby
[27:04] Why revisiting your own birth story can rewrite more than memories
[35:56] What a lotus birth really is and the spiritual logic behind letting nature finish the process
[47:15] How questioning routine procedures like circumcision can wake you up from medical hypnosis
[55:59] The hidden legal meaning of a birth certificate and what opting out actually means
[1:06:39] Why redefining motherhood beyond career or convenience can rewire your entire sense of purpose
- Resources Mentioned:
- The Business of Being Born | Documentary
- Placenta: The Forgotten Chakra by Robin Lim | Book
- The Elephant in the Hospital by Dr. Ryan McAllister | YouTube
- The Way Forward with Alec Zeck episode on The Great Birth Revival with Veda Ray | Spotify or Apple
- Find more from Veda Ray:
- Instagram: @veda.revival
- Youtube: @veda.revival
- Website: vedarevival.com
- Learn more about Veda’s Your Sovereign Baby system here.